Usage of 'Ifs' and ' buts' in life
In our lives, we have given many excuses and reasons for various things. Everyday we hear that someone want to do something but can't. People always try to block themselves on different occasions by using 'ifs'and 'buts' often used in negative sentences.
The terms 'if' and 'but' are used to explain the reason by the people for not able/wanting to do something. By doing this, they are trying to put condition on a much deserved good actions by doubting that would even happen. These two words can even be a barrier in the path of success.People with that attitude in their lives remain mostly unsuccessful since they donot welcome anything in life without these two words.
'If ' stand to show that you don't believe something is possible. It is used in conditional sentences in which an event or situation might be happening or have happened. If pulls us backward into unalterable past and forward into unpredictable future.
'But' is used to indicate contrast or oposition between elements in a sentence. It is used to connect ideas that contrasts. Use of but negates whatever precedes and can create a sense of defensiveness.
If and but stop one from tapping the miraculous powers in an individual. We can change from IF to When. Also we can change But to Then again. In order to achieve success, one should positively look for opportunities, must remove the possibilty of IFS and BUTS.
The phrase 'if' and 'bit'- if one has got to hear as excuses, one would have enough to enjoy a better position in life/
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