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Respect demanded VS. Respect Commanded

As  Human being, we want to feel safe in relationships. feel physically safe in our world.   Therefore, we have developed a belief that if we are respected, we will be safe. But there is a difference in our approach when we strive for safety and we strive for respect. There is also a difference between demanding respect and commanding respect - and there are also alternatives to "respect" for feeling safe.  To demand respect is to tell others, "you will respect me" or otherwise threaten or punish those who do not act according to your wishes. To command respect is to have others observe and admire your actions of their own volition. The underlying desire of having respect feeling safe and in control.  Here are four habits which helps in commanding more respect - 1.  Be worthy of respect - This first point is obvious. This means that - Don't  miss deadlines, Show up on time, Follow through on promises. Make sure all your work is high quality. Present yourself in